Your phone rings at 2 PM on a Tuesday. The caller ID showed an unknown number, but something told you to answer. It’s a headhunter calling with your dream opportunity in construction, architecture or engineering. And what happens next could cost you the interview before it is even offered.
I’m Lynn Novo, and I have over 25 years of experience calling people to interest them in a career opportunity or to follow up when they send their resume. I must admit, I leave A LOT of messages. But just when I think no one will answer their phone, I get surprised by the person who takes the call. Guess what? They don’t always leave me with a good impression. I’m here to pull back the curtain on what recruiters are really thinking and help you land that next big opportunity. Here’s what to do when the headhunter calls.
Hall of Fame Bad Call Locations
Flushing Away Opportunity
The Setup: I reached out to a Senior Architect, let’s call him David, at lunchtime. How was I to know he was at the monthly AIA Lunch & Learn?
The Location: Convention center restroom in the Buffalo Marriott
The Problem: Echo bouncing off all that porcelain and glass, water swooshing sounds, and the unmistakable acoustics that scream “bathroom call”.
The Aftermath: Once I realized where David must be, I was kinda grossed out. I told him to call me that night and ended the call as quickly as I could.
The Lesson: Even 5 minutes of delay is better than an acoustic disaster.
The Safety Meeting Slip-Up
The Setup: MEP Engineer Tom gets a call from me at the scheduled time. But he got called into an unexpected code compliance meeting.
The Choice: Take the call and step out? Or let it go to voicemail?
The Mistake: Answered while walking away from the group
The Background Noise: The inspector is yelling, “These are 1-hour dampers in a 2-hour fire wall!”
The Consequence: I wonder, “Is this Tom’s fault? Maybe he isn’t so good at his job.”
A Fool's Errand
The Setup: Working-from-home architect Rebecca steps away from her desk to run some quick errands
The Location: Checkout line at Wegmans during lunch rush
The Soundtrack: Beeping scanners, price checks, crying children
The Cringe Moment: Cashier asking, “24 rolls of paper towels? Planning for the apocalypse?”, during a conversation about the company’s culture.
The Takeaway: Errands can wait; career opportunities can’t.
In each of these cases, I was able to overcome my subconscious bias and place these candidates when I did a follow up call at a later time. But will you be so lucky?
A Recruiter's Perspective on First Impressions
You know that first impressions are the most impactful, and nowhere is that more true than in recruiting. Research shows first impressions form in literally a tenth of a second. That’s faster than you can say “construction management”! Phone calls are even higher stakes than video meetings because you lose the opportunity to benefit from the “halo effect” of your smile, your eye contact, and how you present yourself. You’re working with pure audio—and every sound tells a story.
Phone call factors and how this headhunter might interpret them (yes, it’s subconscious bias):
- Background Noise: I’m thinking, “Hmm, didn’t plan ahead for this important conversation”
- Location Choice: This shows me how they make decisions under pressure.
- Environmental Control: Can they manage situations? That’s what leaders do!
- Attention to detail: If they are careless here, what about with project specs?
Here’s the thing: when a recruiter hears a toilet flush or a crying baby, they’re not just hearing background noise. They’re unconsciously asking, “Is this how they’d handle our biggest client call?” It’s not fair, but it’s human nature. First impressions stick—and on a phone call, your environment IS your first impression!
Real Talk: When Life Happens During Your Career Call
The Sweet Spot: Authentic Professional Moments
Some background sounds actually work in your favor! I’ve had countless conversations that started with:
“Oh yes! That’s my Golden Retriever, Max. Sorry about that!”
“No worries at all! I have a Toy Poodle named Coco—like Chanel! Yours sounds much bigger than mine!”
The Line in the Sand: Where Chaos Kills Opportunities
- The Bathroom Zone (seriously, the acoustics are unmistakable!)
- Active construction sites (ironic for AEC folks, but the noise is overwhelming)
- While actively driving (safety first, plus it sounds terrible)
- During other meetings (respect everyone’s time)
- Grocery store checkout lines (we covered this disaster already!)
- Can I have a normal conversation here?
- Will this environment help or hurt my professional image?
- If I were calling a client, would I choose this spot?

